Domestic violence is a classless crime which is no respector of age, creed, religion, or political persuasion. It occurs in 1 in 4 families and is a social evil, perpetuated through ignorance, cultural beliefs, acceptance, shame and fear.

Alcohol is often used as an excuse for violence (by both abuser and victim) in denying or minimising the violence. However, violence is also committed when perpetrators are sober and by those who do not drink at all. While alcohol contributes to domestic violence, the problem may be more a case of the abusing partner misusing power and control over the victim then losing control through alcohol abuse.

You can stay for as long as it takes to re-establish your relationship or secure permanent housing.

There can be up to 12 women and a maximum of 20 children.

Yes, you will be asked to complete the required forms and Women's Aid will claim Housing Benefit and support charges on your behalf.

A rate will be set according to your means and you may be asked to pay this either weekly or monthly.

Yes, we expect all children to attend school. This may mean placing them temporarily in a local school if they are not within travelling distance of their own school.

Yes. However, you are asked to come in at a reasonable hour and this time will be discussed and agreed at house meetings.

You are totally responsible for your children at all times. Women's Aid does not provide babysitters. If you must leave your children then another responsible woman may be asked. It is important to let a refuge worker know when making this arrangement.